It appears that my latest blog regarding the Korean Government's preference over Korean-American (KA) couples by giving priority in the EP process has stirred a lot of negative emotions by non-Korean heritage families. Namely, they feel they are being punished by the Korean government by further delaying the adoption process to already delayed process because KAs will be given priority in the EP process.
I think this is perfectly understandable and justifiable reaction by those that have expressed discontent with the latest decision by the Korean Government (Ministry of Health and Welfare - MOHW). And I fully sympathize with their feelings and reactions. I know I would feel the same if I were in their shoes.
I wish I had a simple and easy solution. While I have always been pro-adoption, whether the couples be Caucasian or Koreans, there is really nothing I can do about the choice that the Korean Government makes.
However, there seem to be some misconception that there are lots of Korean-Americans adopting, but that is not the case. To my understanding, of the approximately 100 remaining EPs left for this year, there are only five Korean-American families in the EP list. So it isn't like giving priority to the Korean-Americans in the EP process would make that much difference.
The group photos of MPAK families in my blog seems to have many KAs mainly because these families have been gathering since 1999 and more and more have joined over the span of 12 years. They didn't all adopt past two or three years, but started from long ago. You will see that some of the children are in their teens.
I want you to know that I am with all of you who are frustrated by the delays due to quota and wish I could do something about it. I have complained a number of times to MOHW that what they are doing through quota is really delaying the union of children with parents, and that delay will affect children negatively in their growth.
But unfortunately the powers that be in the government do not view their children like we do. For instance, there are some in MOHW that those children that won't be placed to be put into various institutions and that would be OK for them. But then there are some very caring individuals in MOHW that try to advocate for children but unfortunately their voices do not go far up the chain of command.
Korea sees the intercountry adoption (ICA) program as something of an eye sore in the international community and they deeply desire to close down the the ICA. ICA also projects image of Korea to the world that despite the economic miracle, it is still a country that cannot take care of its own children, thus not having the character of a strong nation. Korea's effort to shut down or gradually reduce the ICA is nothing more than face saving effort.
I think if Korea is to be a great nation in the international community, it should adopt the Hague Convention and practice the priorities outlined in the convention to give children the chance to be placed with their biological families, then domestic adoption, and when neither option is available to place them with willing and loving families abroad. While the Hague Convention does not specifically state the priority should be given to the same race/heritage people residing overseas, it is nonetheless understandable that a nation like Korea would prefer to place a higher priority in placing its children with people of same race or culture.
I have asked the Korean Government numerous times in the past to exclude the KA adoption from their annual quotas, but this request went unheeded so far. I will continue to try to communicate with MOHW on this and will not stop. But perhaps one of the biggest force in impacting the reduction of ICA in Korea is largely due to anti-adoption organizations that have mobilized together to voice opposition to ICA, or even domestic adoption by claiming that adoption promotes separation of children from their biological parents, which is a total nonsense. We all know that adoption is a response to already separated children that need homes, not the cause.
Korea is going through a lot of transition in the policies related to ICA, and will continue to evolve as they get closer to ratifying the Hague Convention. But they are also struggling to save face in the international community, especially as they get ready to host the 2018 Winter Olympic. Let's hope and pray that Korea will come to recognize that beyond the glitters of their economic success, to be a leading nation in the next decade, they can't just sweep the voiceless children under the mat and hope the problem will go away. This is essentially what they are doing by ignoring children that need homes by taking away their rights to grow in homes, even abroad. Let us pray that Korea will truly make the decisions and set the policies that best serves the interests of children. And I promise that I will continue to be a voice for homeless children.
Thank you, Steve, for all you do in and for the Korean adoption community.ReplyDelete
Another thank you coming from a family waiting to get permission to travel for our 4 1/2 year old daughter. Thank you for all you do to advocate for the children and the families waiting.ReplyDelete
well said! love that your heart is for these children. God Bless you.ReplyDelete
Thank you for providing such clear, compassionate information! We have been submitted for EP and are praying all goes through. This blog helps so much, just to know what's really going on!ReplyDelete
Really awesome information. Thanks for your efforts!ReplyDelete
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Thank you for sharing information and insights, particularly since the US agencies have been silent.ReplyDelete
Well said...thanks for your work in advocating for ALL the children! ParkfamilyReplyDelete
Thanks for helping clarify this. We are all so grateful to have you as an advocate for these children!ReplyDelete
You desire and commitment to be the voice for these children is inspiring. Thank you.ReplyDelete
Thank you for this post, and thank you for advocating for all the children. Included is our son who is 2 1/2 and we are still waiting - he may not come home for another 6-9 months.ReplyDelete
Hi, thank you so much for the information I just "discovered" MPAK.ReplyDelete
Is there any way of getting information on how MOHW looks at Korean-adopted who is in the process of adopting from Korea? Would there be a special "quota" that do not count or anything we can do. I am adopted from Korea myself and there's not much information our agency knows about this topic and we have respected not to contact any other authority. We have been waiting since March for that special call.... still waiting like most of you :-(
Wish that we all can travel to bring home our children, that need a home and to be a family!
Thank you for advocating for our children and for us, Steve! As Ashley said above, the information you provide here in the blog sometimes feels like a lifeline to those of us who are waiting!ReplyDelete
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Any thoughts on when another batch of EPs will be submitted?ReplyDelete
Thank you for this information, Steve. This is a difficult time for everyone considering adoption from Korea, but most of all for the children whose futures depend on the decisions being made on their behalf. Hopefully those decisions will not rule out adoption by non-Korean families when the alternative is life in an institution.ReplyDelete